Grace Soltesz
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Soltesz, Crusaders go head-to-head with Chicago State and Navy, week 10

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Over the last two seasons, junior defender Grace Soltesz has been a crucial member of the Holy Cross women’s soccer backline. In her first two seasons, Soltesz has played in 16 games with nine starts for a total of 748 minutes of action in her career. This season she has stepped up greatly become a core member of the Crusaders defense starting all 14 games on the season with one goal, one game winner, one assists and seven shots attempted. She has played a career high of 1090 minutes as a defender with only three more games of the regular season left.

The junior committed to Holy Cross at the beginning of her sophomore year of high school. Although untraditional, Soltesz grew up in a Holy Cross family and knew from a young age it was the only college she wanted to go to. When the opportunity to attend the school and play soccer came up, she just knew she had to take it and committed very early.

“I chose Holy Cross because of the amazing reputation, just of rigorous academics coupled with D1 athletics and as well as the strong Jesuit tradition of being men and women for others. I think that was a big part of it for me. I also grew up a part of a Holy Cross family because both my parents went to Holy Cross and met here. So I grew up watching soccer games, going on tours, always going to the bookstore for Holy Cross gear all the time. It really was my home away from home," said Soltesz. "Then I attended a Holy Cross soccer ID clinic my freshman year of high school and the coach at the time watched me play at a few ECNL showcases. At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school, I committed to Holy Cross. It really was the only school I wanted to go to. It was my dream school because of my parents and just growing up all around it.”

The junior has had her ups and downs during her first two years but has made the most of all the opportunties she got. Despire seeing two different coaching changes and having to fight for playing time, she never gave up and continued to work hard everyday. All her hard work has paid off, this season in particular, and that is due to her will to keep going, a strong team bond, and a great coaching staff at the helm. 

“My three years have kind of been a whirlwind of different emotions, different coaches. Freshman year I came in, I didn't play much at all. I played just a few minutes in a few games and just worked really hard off the field on my own to get better technically, tactically, and get my fitness up. Then Coach Graham came in and completely changed the way I thought of myself as a soccer player and helped me regain my love for the program and for soccer. I got a lot more minutes and experience under my belt in the spring of my freshman year, and then, um, saw a lot more playing time last year as a sophomore. I got better each and every day. I worked really hard and competed, got even better technically and tactically. We as a team just got a lot better in the off season last year and it's translated into this season going really well,” Soltesz said. “The team has made its biggest improvements on the defensive side. We stress being a very stout defensive team and we've had a bunch of shutouts, which I think proves that fact. Coach Graham always preaches ‘win your battles’ and ‘defense wins championships’, so I think that we pride ourselves in going into every game knowing we can get a shutout and knowing that we can win all of our defensive battles. If we do that, then the offense will come and we'll score and win games. We pride ourselves on the defensive aspect of it and we always work on that a lot in a lot in the off season"

Now head coach Ben Graham has made a huge impact on the team in the short time he has been with the program. Soltesz has seen firsthand the impact coach Graham has made and how it has not only changed the way the team plays but how the players think and feel about the game of soccer. He has also cultivated a new culture that focuses on trust, accountability, hard work, and perseverance.

“The culture has changed drastically and that's a lot thanks to Graham. When he immediately took over, he instilled in each of us our program's core values of working hard and competing every single day. And I think the team has taken those values to heart and really goes into every single practice and every game and knowing that the most the least we can do is work hard and compete. And I think we have done that almost every single game in practice, which is really great to see,” said Soltesz. "I want to continue that into my senior season and make sure that that happens every day because that will eventually lead to a Patriot League championship. Off the field, coach Graham has also helped to create a culture that includes a psychologically safe environment for everyone and he emphasizes never leaving anyone out, even if it might not be the popular opinion. So this is something that I really took to heart and want to continue because it's helped me to develop as a leader and use my voice to create the psychologically safe environment for all my teammates, but also to have the tough conversations if they're needed. We're a family. We won't win Patriot League Championships if our noses aren't pointed in the right direction.Graham emphasizes that and it's important that we maintain that culture on and off the field.”

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Holy Cross took home its second conference win for the Turnpike Trophy at Boston University on Wednesday Oct. 11 and fell to Loyola (Md.) on the road in a 3-0 loss. In the BU game junior Ashley Blaka drew a free kick for the Crusaders just outside the box which Soltesz stepped forward to take. The junior sent a beatiful ball into the box and it just grazed of a BU defender to go past the keeper for her first career goal. The Crusaders mantained their 1-0 lead over the Terriers until the final whistle. Soltesz was credited with the game winner and Holy Cross eanred a conference win and its first victory over BU since 2019. 

“Graham talked to us in the locker room after the Loyola game and you know, we take it, we own it. Not every game is going to be perfect. So I think we absorb it, we look at some film, see where we went wrong, and then at one point we have to just let it go, focus on the next game, get a good week of practice in," said Soltesz. “In the BU game, it felt awesome to get my first goal, but I couldn't have done it without all my teammates. Ash drew the foul and that played a huge role in it. Graham asked me to step up and take the kick. So I did what he asked, tried to get it near the back post and it grazed the head of a BU player and went in. So felt awesome to do that. And then just to maintain the lead throughout the whole game was huge.We had a few huge defensive stops. Emily [Bubonovich] had a really good save off the line. We had some blocked shots, just imposing our will again defensively helped us to win that game.”

This year Coach Graham has played around with different formations that the squad has been able to try out. This has allowed for players like Soltesz to get opportunties to score which she hasn't had in the past. Although this team is known for its strong defense, Coach Graham has been taking some risks and sending defenders up top at times to get more numbers in the box for better chances to score. 

“I think it's a good thing to see different looks and try different things because the same formation isn't going to work every single game. So the different looks and the ability we have to put different people up top, trust in ourselves defensively, if we need to use a three back, that we'll get the goal is huge. Cerys [Balmer] in particular is a huge threat up top. Obviously such an amazing defender too, but she is the leading scorer on our team. I's huge that she's able to step up and get those goals for us when we need them most,” Soltesz said. “I never saw myself scoring or assisting any goals. When I think of a defender, I think just stopping goals essentially. But I really enjoy it because regardless if we need three or four defenders in the back, we are able to take the risk of sending some of our defenders forward. It shows a lot of improvement from the last couple years because we're able to still defend with different players or less players and be able to take risks and send more people forward. So it's been awesome being able to do that. I love to get forward and I love to assist or now even score a goal. It's an awesome feeling.”

With the addition of 12 freshman and one transfer to the roster this season, Soltesz and the upperclassman have been tasked with leading this group and creating a positive environment. This plays into the ever growing team culture that the women's soccer team has been adjusting since the arrival of coach Graham. Soltesz is a leader for her teammates and does this both on and off the field.

“I definitely lead by example and I'm also someone who's vocal. I'm not afraid to be vocal either. I think that I lead by example by the way I carry myself and I'm known to work very hard. So by doing that it has helped the freshmen to know what we need to do, know what they need to do to be able to get onto the field. It's going to take a lot of hard work off the field and when no one's watching and I explained that to them, telling them that I didn't play a lot freshman year. All you have to do is work really hard, get your fitness up, get on the ball as much as you can and you will see the field,” Soltesz said. "I'm vocal in the fact that I'll call people out and if I need to have a tough conversation I will. Even if the little things aren't going right or something's happening in the locker room, I will step in to help to keep our culture where it needs to be. Even though I'm not a captain, people consider me a leader because of the fact that I'm not afraid to have those tough conversations because we wanna create a psychologically safe environment and if we don't have that, we're not gonna be able to win. We're not gonna have any chance of winning Patriot League Championships. So I think that's a very important aspect of it."

Coach Graham has been known for his popular sayings that have been a huge hit with his players. Soltesz is no exception and has taken to his saying “Win your individual battle”. This Grahamism has resonated with the defender because it helps remind her of what she is able to control and how if she does this it can make a huge impact on the game.

“My favorite is definitely ‘win your individual battle’. Graham, Ricky, Chris and Kat always say that if we as a team can win six to seven of our individual battles, we will win the game. So I think it's just become something that's very controllable for me. Every game and every practice, I strive to win my individual battle by doing everything I can to impose my will, not get beat on the dribble, not let a player turn block shots, things of that nature,” Soltesz said. "That's the one thing as an individual that I can do to help the team win and be successful. I take that very seriously and I pride myself in being hard to beat in making it as difficult as possible for the forward on the opposing team. I think that little phrase helps me to get through every game because as long as I do that, I've done my job."

Grace Soltesz

The Crusaders are slated to host two games this week at Linda Johnson Smith Stadium. First up they face Chicago State for a non-conference matchup for Holy Cross's men's and women's double header Pink Game on Tuesday, Oct. 17 at 5 p.m. The Crusaders then take on Navy for their second to last conference game on Friday, Oct. 20 at 5 p.m. After coming off a tough conference loss to Loyola (Md.), the Crusaders look to reset with their non-conference match and hope to take home another three points in Patriot League play against Navy.

When the clock is ticking in a game, Soltesz always knows she is one of 11 on the field and her teammates will always have her back. The junior is a very unselfish player with a huge team mindset, in the game she will do whatever she can to help her team succeed.

“I do get super anxious and nervous before a game. I definitely feel it and recognize it, but I try to just calm myself down and understand that I can't win the game for the whole team. It's going to take 11 individuals and the entire team of 32 to win,” Soltesz said. “So I think I try to narrow it down to what I can do as an an individual and that is win my battle. So I sometimes stop myself during the game if I'm frustrated or anxious and nervous and just tell myself to win my battle and that's all I can really do. And then the team win will come. So I try to just narrow it down and focus on the individual aspect of it.”

In her free time away from the field and the classroom, Soltesz enjoys being a Big Sister with the Big Brother Big Sister program. The junior as well as some of her teammates (Emily Bubonovich, Allie Raynor, Olivia Dubin, Kiara Greco, and Samantha Adams) take time once a week to go meet with their Littles and help them with whatever they may need.

“The thing that I love most is being a Big Sister. I go to an elementary school in Worcester with a few of my teammates, as well as other Holy Cross students, once a week for around an hour to an hour and a half and just spend time with my Little. I was matched with a girl who is now in fourth grade. We color, paint, I help her with her homework, whatever she needs or wants do, I'm there for her. I think that's given me a different perspective on life and shown me how lucky I am. But also the fact that I'm able to have such a big impact on someone is very special," Soltesz said. "I've had her since freshman year, so it's been a while and like over the summer we're able to text or email and send gifs. It's super fun. A flyer went around in the school about it and our coach asked if anyone would be interested and I said I was. I got all of the onboarding stuff done, got interviewed for it, and then they call and said there was a girl who matched with me. I've just done it ever since. I really enjoy it. "

The one piece of advise she would give her freshman year self or any incoming first year would be to work head and stay the course.

“I think I would definitely give the advice of stay the course. I had a tough freshman year, but now looking back onto it, it was all worth it. It's worth the sweat, it's worth the tears," Soltesz said. “It's worth the hard work because you will get your chance and you'll shine on the field. Also not sweating the little things because in the long run they're not going to matter.”

An chemistry major, Soltesz is excited to spend her last two years on The Hill getting the chance to take upper level biology and chemistry course. She also looks forward to another year of Holy Cross soccer. After she graduates, Soltesz is thinking about furthering her education and going to medical or PA school so she can one day work in a hospital and help people in need.

Grace Soltesz

'SADER SHORTS


• This marks the first time that the Crusaders and Chicago State will meet

• Holy Cross stand 4-21-3 all-time against Navy

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