during the first half of play in the NCAA football game between the Buffalo Bulls vs Holy Cross at UB Stadium on September 10, 2022 in Amherst, New York.  (Photo by Nicholas T. LoVerde)
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STAYING THE COURSE: Jalen Coker continues to learn, grow and enjoy the moment

By Sarah Kirkpatrick
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Jalen Coker has always loved superheroes —  especially his favorite, Spider-Man. And for Holy Cross fans, Coker is somewhat of a superhero himself. There was his game-winning touchdown reception with 14 seconds left against Sacred Heart, giving Holy Cross its first FCS playoff win in program history. There was his leaping Hail Mary touchdown catch against Buffalo two weeks ago. And, most recently, there was his Turco Award-winning performance against Yale as the MVP of Holy Cross’ homecoming game. 

In only three games this year, Coker has caught four touchdowns – continuing his momentum from his impressive 2021 campaign, in which he earned Sophomore All-America honors. In recent weeks, particularly following his miraculous touchdown against Buffalo, he’s received a well-deserved run of public attention – from being featured as SportsCenter’s top play and other media appearances and interviews, to signing postgame autographs for doting young fans.

But one of Coker’s mantras has long been: “With great power comes great responsibility.” Coker knows that people look up to him. He’s a caring, adoring older brother, and the biggest role model of all, to his 12-year-old sister Jemma and 10-year-old brother Jaxon. For him, family comes first. He uses his voice as a well-respected collegiate athlete to preach love and compassion. He doesn’t take any honor or opportunity for granted — and he hopes he can continue to use his talent, and platform, for a bigger purpose.

Jalen Coker celebrates with Matt Sluka after scoring a touchdown

Coker wants to make it clear that he is more than just your friendly neighborhood football player. He loves superheroes, he loves cartoons, he loves art, he loves to draw, he loves to listen to music. In all areas of his life, Coker is a goofy, fun-loving, compassionate person. He prides himself in working hard, but never at the expense of enjoying and embracing every single minute he gets to set foot on the field. 

Growing up, Coker played a number of sports, but football was most special to him. His father was a football player, and that love of the game, coupled with his entire family’s passion for the sport, inspired Coker. 

“Ever since I touched the field, I felt like I belonged,” Coker said. “That's where I felt the most comfortable. As soon as I stepped on the field, I felt like I could do pretty much anything I wanted.”

He is motivated by his family, his coaches and his teammates. Holy Cross is the best place to be, he says, because every single person on the team, even if they’re injured or not playing, embraces their spot on the team and works their hardest. “Everyone has a role,” he said. 

Coker references former Holy Cross wide receiver Tenio Ayeni as one of his biggest mentors in his Holy Cross career so far — the two have similar personalities, and Ayeni taught him how to be resilient, stay focused and approach the game of football honestly and realistically.

“He taught me, ‘this is what it’s going to be — you can either do it, or you can’t do it,’” Coker said.

Coker has maintained his focus through the ups and downs of adjusting to college football and through the highs and lows of each game and each practice. Interviews and recognition will happen, and the good and bad will come with all of that, but the key is to stay humble and keep growing and learning.

“I still have so much more work to do,” he says. “I have so many more things that I want to accomplish.”

Jalen Coker catches a pass vs. Yale

Coker’s friend, Adam Oakes, serves as much of the inspiration for who he is today. The duo grew up two minutes apart, played Pop Warner together, played video games together, attended elementary, middle and high school together. 

“He was just always positive, he was funny, he was compassionate,” Coker said. “He was everything you want to be as a person. And he did it like it was easy. That’s exactly who he was, there was no trying.”

Oakes died in a hazing incident while pledging a fraternity at Virginia Commonwealth University. Coker has spoken up about his friend, and the dangers of hazing, on his personal social media accounts about his friend and the Love Like Adam Foundation

“All hazing is,” he said, “is just a move to make you feel like you’re in charge or powerful.”

Coker — constantly fueled by love, gratitude and empathy — strives to support Adam’s family in any way he can, to share that message as loudly as possible, and to continue to live and love the way Adam did. 

“His life really made me think about the world a little differently,” Coker said. “Why not be nice to everyone? Why be rude or have jealousy or any of those negative things in your life, when you could just be happy, and continue to spread that happiness? 

“It’s easy for me to say, because I do have nice things, and I go to a nice school — but it’s just that much more important, when things are bad, to continue to spread that positivity. That message is something that I feel like I try to live up to.”

Jalen Coker runs into the end zone

Coker still isn’t who he wants to be, on or off the field. There’s still plenty of work to do for Coker to grow as a player, both technically and holistically. But when it comes to his upcoming goals, Coker isn’t looking too far ahead.

“Stay the course, and keep catching the ball,” he listed as his current objectives. “Keep having good chemistry with my teammates, continue to do well in class, do all the things that I've been doing that have gotten me in this position now. And whatever happens, happens. Don't get too caught up with the future and whatever that holds.

“I want to stay in the moment and enjoy it. And just continue to be who I am, and don't let anyone change that.”

Ultimately, more than earning any accolade or achievement, Coker wants to keep improving, and keep bringing joy to people. 

“I feel like I’m only just starting to become the person I want to become,” Coker said. “And it's not there yet, but I feel like I'm going in the right direction. I just want to continue to be a positive face for people.

“I just want to continue to do stuff on the field that makes people happy and excited – and see how far I can go.”

Jalen Coker catches touchdown at Buffalo, surrounded by UB defenders

TALKING POINTS VS. COLGATE…

  • No. 13 Holy Cross opens Patriot League play at Colgate on Saturday, Sept. 24. Kickoff is set for 1 p.m. in Hamilton, N.Y.
  • In three contests so far this season, Holy Cross has averaged 510 yards of offense, ranking fourth among all FCS teams. 
  • With three consecutive Patriot League Championships to their name, the Crusaders come off an undefeated (6-0) 2021 league slate and have won 11 straight games against Patriot League opponents.
  • Holy Cross has not earned a win in Hamilton since the 2010 season. 
  • Colgate has had a challenging slate to begin the year, with a Week 2 win against Maine and losses to Stanford and Penn.

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